OVERWHELMED

Every first meet, greet, contact, encounter always comes with a certain excitement that doesn't necessarily determine the outcome of things. Everyone or almost everyone wants to be at their best at the very first meet but don't be overwhelmed. Maybe a few weeks, months, or years will test the integrity. Time will take the best test. Don't black out your instinct most of all don't silence the voice of the spirit of God speaking to pay attention, let God lead you.
Everything works/looks perfect at the first instance but watch it! So you aren't drowned by the wrong influence. Before you get drowned, carried away or overly trust get on your knees and ask God for the true identity of such person, for direction for such relationship. There are a lot of veiled faces coming with the nicest of everything but be careful so the affect doesn't become a defect.
Never base your verdict of trust on assumptions. The Holy Spirit isn't just for the altar or Pastors, the Holy Spirit is for everyone who hunger and desire for Him, inviting Him to take over all. You need the Holy Spirit of truth to discern every person that comes into your life. Readily defining the purpose of relationships also helps you stay in course. So when next there is a first meet or possibly you are still in the early stage of a first meet, take it one step at a time, ask the Holy Spirit for help and guidance, following His lead.

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