THE I SAID IT SYNDROME

Each time you make the present/future suffer for the pain of the past, you will keep reliving round the circle. Don't assume it will be the same because the situation seem to be similar with what you saw and use to know. The reason why your new year resolution  keeps being about the same thing at the same spot is because you just relived the past year by making the present suffer for what used to be.
The 'I said it syndrome' simply means I already know this will be the turn out since this situation is similar to my last experience. Similar situation doesn't equal to similar outcome. How about a different strategy at your end and see how things turn out. Don't just give up and say 'I said it' without striving till the end. Don't just write a new resolution, renew your mind in alignment with the new.
Stop assuming things before you see the outcome, see to it till the end, with a positive mindset, different strategy and more enthusiasm. No one was born to fail. Let your expectation be of positive result, even for any reason you want to reminisce on the past ,let it be to give yourself a drive to be better and with a different strategy.
Keep off the 'I said it syndrome ' your thoughts are powerful enough to affect your outcome. Stop seeing things with the eyes of yesterday and a mindset to fail. Faith see's the invincible with a positive  mindset, no matter what has been or is happening see what God says. The new experience aligns with a new mindset and a positive enthusiasm regardless. Appreciate your process without self pity or seeing yourself as a victim. Say no to the - I said it syndrome.

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