Every expectation awaits a feedback, but how do you handle a seemingly unexpected and negatively tagged response like 'No'. Too many have gone into a depressed state because they didn't get the desired reply. Either from a job application, to spouses in marriage /relationship,to contract deal and what have you. Stop processing that reply in your head, it is the devil's tactics to get you depressed. So what, if it was a NO that isn't the end of life. Most times the better is after a NO but because you haven't gotten over the last response you're unable to see the opportunity before you.
If you knew how many times God saved you with a NO from what would have destroyed you, then you will realise that it was a positive reply afterall .God saved you with such a reply so you wouldn't settle for less than he has planned for you, He saved you from so many dangers that would have swallowed you. Are you still crying over the NO? Don't loose yourself over it, it wasn't because of your inability. Most times it is for a reason that is beyond your understanding. Everything that happened didn't take God by surprise, He knows about it before it happened. Maybe all you asked, anticipated, expected didn't come as planned, be rest assured God has the perfect timing for it. Whenever you encounter such response even after you have given your best just tell God to take the glory and show you the next step. Don't go pondering on how good or bad you're or haven't been. Don't zoom out yourself. A NO in any form doesn't always mean rejection,it could be God's way of redirecting you in the right direction. It is good to seek God's face about it but don't kill yourself over it. The NO'S aren't always negative some were orchestrated by God. It is time to get back on track and see all that God has outlined for you!
EFECOLLABS
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